the origin of robinson-crane

Myself and Chris have been married for just over five months now and we’ve been together for a year and ten months in total, which isn’t very long now that I think about it! I suppose it was a bit of a whirlwind, love at first sight kinda thing, but the beginning of our relationship was a liiiiiittle bit unorthodox.


6th October 2014

Picture the scene. A seedy club on Cheltenham high street, filled with the loud thumping of Zane Lowe’s DJ skills [side note: I couldn’t hear anything for days after that night, it was so loud]. I’m dancing with my housemate and her uni coursemates when a cavem10406664_281630272047274_3086561638254721721_nan catches my eye. Mostly because he’s wearing a dress, but also because he’s coming over to our group like he knows us. That’s because he knows one of us (duh); he’s a housemate of my housemates coursemate. Try saying that after a few shots, which I had definitely had that night.

I didn’t really think that much into it. I danced, I stole his little caveman bracelet thing, I laughed at his drunken jokes, but I actually had a ‘boyfriend’ at the time. I say ‘boyfriend’, but it was just someone I was casually seeing with no commitment or actual feelings… on my side, anyway. I got the feeling he was more into me than I was into him. At the end of the night, I gave the caveman a cheeky kiss on the cheek and left.

10th October 2014

The caveman messaged me (“Hi, I dunno if your remember me but…”) having seen the photo above (which I was tagged in) on the club’s facebook page. We chatted about lots of things, but Game of Thrones mostly, which I hadn’t seen. We arranged to meet up to watch it the next week.

14th October 2014

We watched Game of Thrones at his house. In his bedroom. We did1459623337591 this a couple of times a week for a few weeks and I continued seeing the other guy, even though I don’t know why I was carrying on with it. I didn’t like him, but I knew that I was falling in love with Chris. We kept our ‘affair’ secret as I was seeing someone else. We kept saying that we wouldn’t see each other anymore but, y’know… once you’re told you can’t have something, you gotta have it.

20th November 2014 

I finally got rid of the first guy and me and Chris professed our love to each other and lived happily ever after, basically. My housemates were hurt that I had kept this huge secret and things unfortunately weren’t the same afterwards with them. I ended up moving into Chris’s house after a few weeks.

31st March 2015

10404881_489578851193200_5231646206290249438_nChris proposed! We were in our pyjamas, watching crap on TV or a movie or something and he asked me to marry him. Obviously, I said yes. The ring was white gold with a blue topaz stone, which is my birthstone!

June 8th 2015

We moved out of Chris’s student digs and into his parents’ home near Stoke-on-Trent. I hated it with a passion, but it was only temporary. Chris started work for his dad, who owns an engineering company.

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We moved into a 2 bed house in Leicester, as I was planning on going back to university there. [Side note: actually, I’m still enrolled. I should probably let them know I’m not coming…!] It was freezing in that house as it was huge and we couldn’t afford heating. Chris changed jobs twice, I looked for work, had a slight mental breakdown and started planning a cheap wedding.

January 2nd 2016

We bought Sebastian!

February 8th 2016

We couldn’t afford rent in Leicester any more, so we moved into Chris’s parents’ rental property in Stoke-on-Trent, which is where we are today! Chris started to work for his dad again but with more responsibility and learning. I started planning decor ideas as the house looks like old people died there.

February 27th 2016

46.jpgOur wedding day. We wrote our own vows and said them in front of friends and family in West Sussex, which is where I’m from. It was a perfect day, not because of the party or the food or my dress, but because I got to marry my best friend.

March 28th 2016

We bought Hazel! We also decided that we wanted to buy this house and stay in it for a couple of years before moving to somewhere more family-friendly so the mortgage savings started here. To this day there is still £0 in our mortgage fund.


And that’s it! I’ll do a bigger post about my wedding and how I did it on a tight budget in the future. How did you and your partner meet? Or how did they/you propose if you’re engaged or married? Let me know in the comments!

Love,

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